something that is rare in this life....love.
either you have it, you don't, or you unhappily have it, or your constantly longing for it. those who have it are rare. those who don't are constantly seeking it, and those who unhappily have it wish they didn't. it's seems hard to find people who have been happily in love for several years. i have studied human sexuality and have learned theories that humankind is not naturally monogamous, and the more i look around the more i see that this theory may not necessarily be a theory. it's scary for a hopeless romantic to view the reality of love and the rareity it is found. not every princess will get their prince and that's a harsh reality to face. instead we have been forced to settle. settle because it is better than being alone, or so we are told. i've settled a few times and always find myself much happier alone. i guess all i can do is remain a hopeless romantic and keep waiting for that other mate. Hopefully if they ever come, i'll have waited long enough to understand what i need and become part of that small precentage that is truly happily in love. i have huge fear though, doubt that that reality is of any truth.
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